Why not get married?

OK，
I over did the photo.
Now I look like the chinese doll from hell. 


If anyone cares,
sorry for the delay.


I went to work yesterday and today
and will still work tmr.
I am a shop-a-holic,
but I'm also


a workaholic.


I'm actually happier today because  there was more work to be done.
--_________________--lll


Over enthusiastic is right for me.
If you don't find that I am,
you don't know me.


Now,
Back to the topic. 


Why not get married?


You know what?
I actually don't mind getting married,
but there are so many things that I do mind,
it's hard to find a guy that fits.


1. Why do I wanna find a guy who is smart and has a lot of knowledge?
(note:being smart doesn't mean you're knowledgeable.)
- For obvious reasons. Who would want a dumb husband?
He doesn't have to be extremely smart, just smarter than me.


2. Why do I wanna find a guy who is (super) tall?
- Because I am shallow and I find that tall guys are more good looking.
other than that,
because I am short and I would like my children to at least have the 50-50 chance of becoming tall.


3. Why do I wanna find a guy who plays sports?
- Because they are generally more healthy.
other than that, because I want my kids to play sports too. If they have a sporty dad they might be trained to be sporty too. 


4. Why do I wanna find a guy who is well-off/rich?
-Same answer as no.2. Because I am shallow and materialistic.
Other than that, if two guys have the same "qualities", but one is poor and the other is rich, who would you choose?


5. Why do I wanna find a guy who doesn't stay up to play games?
- Because guys who don't know when to sleep don't take good care of themselves.
How would they take care of me then?


6. Why do I wanna find a guy who doesn't take his bath too late? (Yes, I'm this particular)
- Because if you take long baths, you will get rheumatism. or better known as 风湿。
At that time, I'd probably be going through menopause and I don't want you to bother me with your whining.


7. Why do I wanna find a guy who can cook+do house chores/clean up after himself?
- Obviously, because you can take over when I'm tired or lazy.
Other than that, I'm usually lazy, so if I work and you work, it's only fair that you do half the chores.

8. Why do I wanna find a guy who doesn't smoke/eat too much instant food/do eat fruit and vege?

- Because if I marry you, I want it to last forever and I don't want you to die of cancer and leave me alone in this world.

Other than that, I don't want my kids to say "but dad ___FILL IN THE BLANK WITH ANY OF THE ABOVE__ too" 

Well, these are not all of the criteria that I look for in a guy. For more examples, please refer to the post titled "~wannabe" right below the chat box.


















or click here

(note 2: that post was written almost 1 year ago. If you see contradicting stuff, refer to this post, yes, this one.)

that's what J_Fish has to say~ Au Revoir~

p.s. 久违了，脸红心跳。你·回·来·了。

就只因为某个人靠我太近……

A collection of thoughts and questions

1. I LOVE FRENCH!!!
more and more.

2. I did a survey on says.com a few days ago.
A question which I never thought about appeared.
I froze.
It took me awhile to give a very lame answer to it.
I really have no idea how to answer it.
I wonder if I am the only one who have this problem.

My answer doesn't really matter.
what matters is what is your answer?

I can't remember exactly what the question is, but it goes something like this.

Why are you proud of being a Malaysian?

3. Which is worse? You have cancer or you're going blind?

4. (refer to photo above) I'm a hot guy. XD

5. What would your reaction be if one day you found out that your same gender best friend is gay and is interested in you?

6. What would your reaction be if one day you found out that your same gender best friend is gay, is not interested in you but have the potential of being interested?

7. Which is more obscene? Showing your belly or showing cleavage? Choose 1.

8. I do believe that next year there will be a big catastrophe, and it's too late to do anything about it.

that's what J_Fish has to say~ Au Revoir~

p.s.


Song of the week. Too bad I can't find one with a better quality.

Song of last week goes to


So love these songs.

What is so effing hard??!!!!!!

I can't stand this anymore.


This is stupid.
Tonight is our college's annual dinner phase 1.


Theme     :Intellectual and Elegant.
Question  :What to wear


Answer    :Easiest and safest choice, formal wear.


Since it's not a glitz and glamour event like phase 2 is gonna be,
just wear formal wear. FULL STOP.


Question I wanna ask the others:
WHAT THE EFF IS SO HARD ABOUT WEARING FORMAL WEAR??!!!!


Please don't say ironing.


It's an activity like all other activities.
Only difference is that we have a so-called dress code to follow.
They didn't even really state it out.
Just don't wear anything too revealing.


If you don't wanna wear formal wear,
FINE.
Just wear something nice.


WHY THE EFFFFFF IS IT SO HARD??!!!


Imagine you are one of the committee members of an event/activity/project/whatever


You work your ass off 
and no one turns up 


BECAUSE THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT TO WEAR/
THEY'RE TOO EFFING LAZY TO IRON THEIR SHIRT.


HOW THE EFF WOULD YOU FEEL????




what goes around comes around. 


that's what J_Fish wants to say~ Au Revoir~


p.s. No wonder I don't have friends. I am frank. 
And indeed, "frank is a terrible name." 

The power of photo editing

If you care to compare my old pics with the recent ones,

you might find that I look very different.

Right?

Other than the hair and make-up,

I have "improvements".

Firstly,

I now use double eyelid tape,

which make my eyes wider.

Secondly,

Like I said,

my photos have been edited.

I have my face sharpened. (?)

Skin smoothened. (?)

Eye very much widened.

Well,

I don't think I look too bad in the original photos,

but,

I'd like to look nice(r) in my own definition.

Other than that,

I can use the effects to make my photos less dull.

And I can even apply make-up when I'm too broke to buy the products.

OR when I for get to apply make-up.

Ya sure. like that's gonna happen.

If you can see the difference.

I know some people are pro-natural beauty.

But not for me.

Obviously most of us are not born 

"perfect" or "good looking".

(well it's all about how you define perfect and good looking)

please don't give me the "personality matters the most" crap.

That is just bull.

If you're too lazy to try and make yourself look nicer,

don't criticize those that do.

At least we make an effort.

Anyway,

I'm not gonna deny it.

I do prefer to be around good looking people.

Ok,

WAY too far away from the topic.

I'm gonna stop telling people how shallow I am.

Bottom line is,

Photo editing helps me look how I want to look

and I don't care if people say that I'm a cheat.

I admit that I edit my photos.

=p

that's what J_fish has to show~ Au Revoir~

p.s. here's the unedited photo.

and the comparison 

and I'm practicing how to look like a guy. wtf.
complete with hairdo and make-up.


studying how guys' features look different from girls'.

I'm gonna dress up as a guy for tomorrow's dinner.

What's life without a little craziness?
Since 2012 is probably happening,
WHY HOLD BACK??
(I'm not asking you to do stuff that are wrong
in terms of religion or the law,
but just get out there and have fun in a safe way.

stay tuned for my manly look!! XD


And pray for those in Japan.
and Philippine. 

给自己

勇敢，才能活得精彩。

明知道自己不喜欢无聊的生活，

就要学会勇敢，

不要理会别人的眼光。

生活是自己的，

不需要为别人而活。

要习惯独来独往。

你的朋友们不会永远在你身边。

No man is an island,

you are no man.

自己一个人不是也可以生活？

问问自己，除了晚餐，还有什么时候是有人陪伴的？

习惯了就没事了。

要学会找和你有共同兴趣的人当朋友，

不要因为习惯在一起了，

就当作理所当然。

没有共同兴趣的朋友一大把又怎样？

到最后还是会独来独往，

除非找到了愿意无条件陪你上山下海的人。

不要以为自己为别人付出就会得到收获。

你的付出何时有过收获了？

冷酷是自我保护。

除非你练到刀枪不入的境界，

否则不要让自己融化。

不要和人家暧昧。

暧昧是一场你永远赢不了的心机游戏。

耍心机你永远赢不了别人。

没有任何一个人是没有心机的，

只有重或轻。

认为自己没心机的人才应该要多他们防备，

因为他们自己耍心机理所当然到了不自觉地境地。

不想笑就别笑。

你演技不好，

强颜欢笑人家是看得出的。

除非你知道有人会真心安慰，

伤心时就自己承受好了。

你身边没有能为你带来真正的欢乐的人。

说出来只会让别人烦恼，

因为他们知道自己帮不了你。

开心就和大家一起分享。

不要管别人是否看到，感觉到。

多一个开心的人总比多一个伤心的人好。

that's what J_Fish wants to tell herself~ Au Revoir~