sex ed?

long post.




I read a post about sex education.


here's from my point of view.
might be offensive.




sex education is not really (ONLY) teaching people how to have sex.
obviously WTH.


well, 
indirectly.


i mean apparently schools won't let the students watch porn (in school).


but with all the websites on the internet,
do you think anything's gonna stop people (with internet excess) from learning about sex?
do you think keeping it taboo and pretend it doesn't exist will keep people from seeking it?


"RUBBISH".




do you think that religion is enough to stop ppl from having sex?
first of all,
not everyone is a religious person.
they wouldn't care what God's gonna think if they don't care if there's a God would they?
and obviously,
even people who are religious could stumble.

i once saw a video running freely about in fb.

a girl was sitting on the boy's lap

and the boy's hand was 

erm...

rubbing the girl's breast under her tudung.

and i thought that people who care to wear tudung are more religious....

i guess i'm kinda naif to think like that huh...

so why should people 
(especially the young ones)
be educated about sex?


not everyone knows that after having sex,
you could get babies after nine to ten months...
especially unprotected sex.


don't laugh.


there are cases where the teenagers don't know what happened to them.
they keep getting fatter and fatter,
and when the time comes,
the baby "pops" out.


or so they claim.


and i wonder how their parents never found out....


anyway,
i guess instead of avoiding it and expect the parents to talk about it
(some parents are not comfortable talking about sex)
sex education in school should be the best way.
of course it could always be set as a non-compulsory subject.


it's not telling people
"hey, it's ok to have sex, just do it safely". WTH.


of course the teachers won't encourage students to have sex,
but i think what sex ed is trying to do,
is to tell ppl,
what happens when (and after) you have sex,
show them the consequences.
(STD, babies, bankruptcy [you think babies are cheap {if you decide to keep them}?]etc etc)


and even after all those "warnings" if you still HAVE to do it,
play safe.


i dun think the teachers who teach this subject are gonna teach "techniques" WTH...
if you think that's what sex education is about,
you're wrong.


you think only pre-marital sex needs safe sex?


married couples should have safe sex too.
it's about birth control.
it doesn't work 100%,
but it's better than none.


not everyone wants 5 children.
please....


and you could never be sure if you're your spouse's one and only.
whether you believe it or not.

of course certain religions don't permit the use of condoms, birth control pills and so on.
that's why they usually have big families.
(and might face financial problems)
but that's not our problem is it?


so stop blaming ppl from other religions 
who have less children for being more well-off.


that's what J_Fish has to say~ Au Revoir~


p.s. wat do you think?