Tuesday 9 November 2010

Sexually harassed

when I was waiting for a bus at station U.
by a group of teenagers who are about 14-16 years old. 


Well,
I dun think a lot of people know about sexual harassment.
I didn't know much either,
so I googled Sexual Harassment in Malaysia.
Read up if you have time.


Well,
sexual harassment includes verbal, non-verbal, psychological and physical.
so don't think just coz you didn't touch her,
you're not harassing her.


I dunno why,
but
surprisingly
sexual harassment is  more to workplace sexual harassment.
(yes? Mr. J.O?) 


WHY??!!


I get harassed more on the streets
than at work
well
I haven't gone to work yet
but then,
I think people are braver when they harass people on the streets
at least if the person don't call the cops
they can just get away with it.


Imagine if someone sexually harasses a co-worker
The consequences....


Anyway,
back to the topic.


How was I sexually harassed?


They were on a bus,
waiting to leave the station.
One of the boys were knocking at the window
trying to get my attention,
and he did.


When I looked over,
I saw the most disturbing thing I've seen
while waiting for a bus.


That bastard was 
squeezing his nipples,
grabbing his... erm....
boob,
and licking his lips.
His friends were laughing.
I can see that they're enjoying the show.


If those were a bunch of chinese boys,
I'd get on that bus and scold them right in front of all the other passangers.


The bus was there for quite some time,
and everytime I looked at their direction,
he did the same thing.


And at one point,
I swear he was touching his d**k.
And he was asking me to look,
giving me the "come on" gesture.


WTF. 


What kinda people raised these children?
They're disgusting 
and have no respect for women or girls.


I read up on the punishment
for sexual harassment,
it was ONLY up to 5 years or a fine, or both.
I bet they'd get less.
A few months maybe,
that is,
IF they get charged.


I was wondering if I should call the police.


I dunno if this is common,
but it's not right.


I wonder if the police would come,
and if they did,
would they come in time.
The bus was going to leave at any minute.


I felt helpless and very offended.
Here I was,
a victim of sexual harassment,
and I can't do anything about it.


And after the bus left,
it came to me.
I should've taken a photo of them.
Since they enjoy the attention so much,
I don't think they mind finding their photo on FB or all around the internet.


Minor or not,
they have to be punished.


Now,
all I can say is,
next time.


Next time,
I'm gonna take photos of these disgusting people
and let the internet do the punishing. 


FOR YOUR INFORMATION:
whistling to a girl,
licking your lips while looking at her,
making that annoying kissing like sound
and even calling out 
"ah moi, ah moi"
is sexual harassment. 
(because they come under this:
The Penal Code, section 509 provides that :
"WHOEVER, INTENDING TO INSULT THE MODESTY OF ANY WOMEN, UTTERS ANY WORDS, MAKES ANY SOUND OR GESTURE OR EXHIBIT ANY OBJECT, INTENDING THAT SUCH WORD OR SOUND SHALL BE HEARD, OR SUCH GESTURE OR OBJECT SHALL BE SEEN BY SUCH WOMAN, SHALL BE PUNISHED WITH IMPRISONMENT FOR A TERM WHICH MAY EXTEND TO 5 YEARS OR WITH FINE, OR WITH BOTH".



That's what J_fish has to say~ Au Revoir~


p.s. I hate it when people make that kissing like sound, or calling me
"ah moi" or "小姐" or whatever becayse I'm wearing short pants or skirt or a tank top.
(or because you think I'm hot/pretty)
It's insulting.


I dun care if it's a compliment to you.
I dun need this kinda low life compliment.


If you think I'm pretty,
get some guts and tell it to me,
nicely.

6 comments :

  1. Oh gosh...I didn;t know kids these days does this...it's not jz sicko lor...I dunno wht to say...it'sss arrrghh

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  2. That's really a disgrace of them. Making a mockery of themselves.

    Really hope you can get over this very soon, cos they never deserved to make you any depressed....

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  3. Those lowlifes, not even worthy for us to kick their balls!

    Be careful darl!

    What goes around, comes around!

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  4. Arrghh...Can I jz bish them...grrrr...

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